About Our Paradigm

It all started when....

When I decided to start jotting down my thoughts into a journal.  I figure, why not?  I have a lot to say with all these experiences; marriage, kids, spirituality, and business.  I though maybe I can share my experience of –‘bumps and bruises mixed success and failures’.

I read a quote by a man name Carl Hayden from a book called, “Your Hidden Superpowers-How the Whole Truth of Failure Can Change Our Lives.” by Becca North, PhD.  Mr. Hayden said, “ Failures create a habit of mind and rules for self-governance that increase the likelihood that you will succeed.”  

The odd quote resonated with me and where I was at the time in life.  Living in beautiful Hawaii without a cent to my name. My family and I have to live in different places in Oahu because it was our second time being evicted from our place of dwelling.

My wife and I were not in bad terms by any means, only that our financial circumstances at the time gave us no choice but to live separately and figure out a way to make it work, someway, somehow. You can say I was brought down to my knees because it was the first time our five family unit was separated and dispersed into different locations.  There was a time where all five of us lived in a two bedroom one bathroom apartment and somehow we made it work.

Now you may think, why?  Why did you let it become that way?  There are many answers to that question and it’s always easier to find the blame that cost the hole in our lives. However, after many days of contemplations, prayers, self-assessments, I came to realize that everything that was happening in our lives was meant to happen. The last thing we want is for the family to blame each other and why did it happen again?  

Many nights of tear bearing, soul searching, counseling, and spiritual identity seeking.  I turned to writing and reading the good book for solace. Became closer to my church and with church family.  Depended on friends and business partners for dwelling and transportation. 

Somehow I was fed and provided for which I’m very thankful. Relationship with my wife and children during Christmas was peaceful and filled with unconditional love. 

Which brings me to the creation of this website and calling it, “Our Paradigm”. 

The name of the site was inspired, because in life when we try to do and become an example or model for others-there will be a drastic change for us to become better people. It’s our decision of how to handle it and move forward that will lead us to the next chapter of our personal saga.

I decided to use this site for others to learn and express their personal saga. After all we are created to connect and relate to each other. Changes will always happen and our support system is the vehicle to survival. 

I learned that there are three virtues of happiness, which is the core concept of this website. Those three concepts are our Relationship, Health, and Wealth. These three will be the platform of the topics written in this website. I pray that you have a fruitful and insightful experience coming into Our Paradigm’s domain. 

Have a blessed day…

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